On Wednesday, Nick and I attended a funeral for a friend. His name was Von, and he was only 26 years old. He grew up in Holden with Nick and their families were very close. When he was 2 1/2 years old, he had a cattle gate fall on him, and he was basically dead, but the Dr's were able to save him and bring him back to life. Since then, him and his family knew that he was living on borrowed time. He lead a very full and productive life, despite the mental complications his accident left him with. He served a partial mission in Provo, and served a full service mission at Welfare square in
SLC. He was the manager for the Millard Eagles football team for almost 10 years. He was such an example of how people should live
thier lives. Not judging, not
critisizing, and loving everyone. He was on his way to work last Friday morning, when he
overcorrected in his truck getting on the freeway, and the truck rolled, and he was killed.
As I thought about death and how we live our lives, it really brought it all to reality for me. We all live and we all die. We can't control how or when we die, but we can control how we live. Do we do all we can everyday to live the gospel? Do we go out of our way to give service? Do we show and tell the people around us we love them? What kind of priorities do we set? I could go on and on with questions that I ask myself. I am not perfect, and I have a lot to learn still. I have such a good family and great friends, who are great examples to me.
I just want everyone know how much I love Nick. He is a great husband, and I don't know anyone else who would be able to put up with me! He is a wonderful father, who is always willing to help with the kids, and he puts Carson to bed
everynight. I love sitting outside the door as he helps Carson say his prayers. It is the cutest thing in the world. He reads with them, plays with them, feeds them, and loves them! He works so hard for our family. He gets up at 3:45 AM every day! And works anywhere from 40 to 60 hours a week, just so I am able to stay home with our children. He supports me in all that I do. And despite our disagreements sometimes, he is always on my side.
I love my children. Carson is such a delight and I love him to pieces. He keeps me laughing, smiling, and sometimes yelling. (He is a three year old, and gets into everything) But he is my joy! To watch him learn and grow the past three years has been amazing. I knew having children can make you happy, but it is so much more than that. It is a feeling that is so hard to explain. It is
exhilarating! No amount money can buy anything so great! Kaylee is just a doll, and even though she is a lot of work, she is just an angel! She is getting such a fun personality, and I can't wait to see how she grows! I feel so blessed to have these beautiful children, and I can only imagine the love our Heavenly Father must feel for us, when I know of the love I have for MY children. I am thankful everyday for the blessings of health, safety, and love that our family has.
I am sorry that I am rambling, I just want to share my feelings that I have had the last few days. I hope that I don't have to attend any funerals for a while. The thing I fear the most is loosing someone in my family, especially my children. I pray for the
Whatcott family and I know that they find comfort in knowing that they will see Von again someday.
Just something to think about...